As Amos 3:3 reminds us, "How can two walk together unless they are agreed?" Goal setting is a powerful tool, but when done in alignment with your partner, it can transform not just your future, but your relationship itself.
Setting goals with my husband took time to establish—but through the process, we’ve learned more about each other. I’ve gained deeper insight into his dreams, I know how to pray for him more intentionally, and I can celebrate his success in a more profound way. This journey has not only aligned our vision but has strengthened our faith and our bond as a couple. Let's explore how you can take the next step in walking in agreement with your partner.
They Agreed Principles
The foundation of this journey is rooted in the They Agreed Principles, which help couples align their vision and build a strong, goal-oriented relationship:
Faith – Center your goals on shared beliefs and spiritual growth.
Communication – Engage in open, honest conversations about your aspirations.
Commitment – Stay dedicated to achieving your shared vision.
Accountability – Support and encourage each other to stay on track.
Celebration – Recognize and appreciate progress along the journey.
How to Apply SMART Goals to Your Relationship
SMART Goals ensure that your vision becomes actionable:
✅ Specific – Clearly define what you want to achieve.
✅ Measurable – Establish criteria to track progress.
✅ Achievable – Ensure it’s realistic given your resources and time.
✅ Relevant – Align it with your long-term vision and values.
✅ Time-bound – Set a deadline for completion.
Example SMART Goal for Couples
Instead of saying, “We want to save money,” try: 💡 “We will save $1,000 for an emergency fund by March 31, 2025, by setting aside $100 per paycheck and reducing dining out to once a week.”
Your Next Steps
At the workshop, you identified your top three priorities using the Wheel of Life—faith, finances, health, career, and more. Now, it’s time to put them into action:
1️⃣ Write down your top three goals as a couple.
2️⃣ Apply the SMART framework to each goal.
3️⃣ Create a plan and check in regularly.
4️⃣ Celebrate milestones together!
Continue Walking in Agreement
We encourage you to keep building your shared vision beyond this workshop. To help you stay on track, we’ve created the They Agreed Bundle, which includes:
- Guided Journal – Capture reflections and track progress.
- Discussion Cards – Spark meaningful conversations.
- Digital Vision Board Kit – Bring your goals to life visually.
Order yours today and keep making your goals plain!